Well then ...

Well then folk, YOU know you're written something dirydirtydirty when you ACTUALLY have to go to the spnkink-meme's pinboard AND spn-hardcore to check their list of kinks, to KNOW how to call some/certain things in your story! And THEN you really, really, really know it's something dirtybadwrong when the list of kinks becomes 28 (and counting) kinks/tags/warnings long!
t'yeah ... *headdesk*
I've NEVER had to do this, and it freaked me out! It really freaked me out!